I coach writers working on memoir manuscripts, nonfiction book proposals, MFA program applications, and personal essays, meeting on a one-off or ongoing basis depending on the needs of the individual writer. My coaching clients have published memoirs and cookbooks with small and large publishing houses and have been published in Yoga Journal, Salon, Self, the New York Times, the Washington Post, Huffington Post, and many other places (find links to selected examples below).
Coaching meetings are held online via a meeting platform that allows for us to meet face to face. My rate is 120 dollars an hour, and I’m willing to meet for very short, focused meetings and charge by the minute (minimum 15 minutes). My philosophy is to meet the writer at the level they’re at and help them reach their goals by teaching discrete skills and giving them honest and usable feedback. My strengths are structural and developmental editing and reading at the speed of light. I don’t proofread unless a client desperately needs me to because it’s not my strength, but I’m happy to refer you to an excellent proofreader. If you’d like to know more about the coaching process or set up a complimentary 15-minute consultation, send me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org.
In the past I have offered webinars on memoir writing (Memoir Essentials) and finding your voice as a writer (Writing Is My Drink). The recordings of both these classes (and their corresponding handouts) are available for purchase by going to the class pages (Memoir Essentials) (Writing Is My Drink) and clicking on the Pay Pal Buy Now button. If you’re interested in working on a memoir or memoir proposal with me and have never taken my classes, I strongly suggest that you take the Memoir Essential webinar. If you would like to buy links to the recordings of both the Writing Is My Drink webinar and the Memoir Essentials webinar, pay $225 (sales tax included) (Memoir Essentials) and finding your voice as a writer (Writing Is My Drink) to https://www.paypal.me/theonestor. After payment is received, I will send you links to the recordings to the email address associated with your Pay Pal account. Also available for purchase: the How to Write a Modern Love teleseminar with New York Times Modern Love Editor Daniel Jones and six Modern Love writers from March 22, 2015. To purchase, visit the How to Write a Modern Love Teleseminar page and click the Buy Now button or pay $79 (sales tax included in price) to https://www.paypal.me/theonestor.
My bio: Theo Pauline Nestor is the author of Writing Is My Drink: A Writer’s Story of Finding Her Voice (And a Guide to How You Can Too) (Simon & Schuster, 2013) and How to Sleep Alone in a King-Size Bed: A Memoir of Starting Over (Crown, 2008), which was selected by Kirkus Reviews as a 2008 Top Pick for Reading Groups and as a Target “Breakout Book.” An award-winning instructor, Nestor has taught the memoir certificate course for the University of Washington’s Professional & Continuing Education program since 2006. She also teaches at Hugo House in Seattle and has taught at twice at Hedgebrook. She holds an MA in English Literature from San Francisco State University and an MFA in Creative Writing (Fiction) from the University of Washington. Nestor also produces events for writers such as the Wild Mountain Memoir Retreat, Bird by Bird & Beyond, and the Black Mesa Writers’ Intensive, featuring talks by writers such as Anne Lamott, Cheryl Strayed, Julia Cameron, and Natalie Goldberg. She lives in Seattle with her family and their cat, Rory. You can follow her on Facebook here and on Twitter @theopnestor. Read testimonials from coaching clients here.
Selected memoir titles from my former students and clients:
The Alchemy of Loss by Abigail Carter
California Calling by Natalie Singer (Forthcoming from Hawthorne Books, March 2018)
Differently Wired by Deborah Reber (Forthcoming from Workman Books, 2018)
The Chicken Who Saved Us by Kristin Jarvis Adams
Paradise Imperfect by Margot Page
Marijuana Nation by Roger Roffman
A Long Way from Paris by E.C. Murray
There’s Been a Change of Plans by Amy Koko
Starved: A Nutrition Doctor’s Journey from Empty to Full by Anne McTiernan
Bering Sea Strong by Laura Hartema (Forthcoming from Skyhorse, March 2018)
New York Times Modern Love columns by my former students and clients:
A World Away, A Wish Answered by Natalie Appleton
As a Father, I Was Hardly a Perfect Fit by Tim Elhajj
The Messy-Kitchen, Parking-Spot War by Judith Gille
Labels of Married Life, in a New Life by Margot Page
Washington Post essays by my former students:
Marijuana’s addictive risk shouldn’t be ignored by Roger Roffman
My husband was laid off. Here’s what happened to our parenting by Natalie Singer-Velush
Self magazine essay by a former student:
Running helped me cope with my husband’s sudden death by Allison Ellis
Salon essays by my former student and client:
Dating after the mastectomy by Wendy Staley Colbert
Why bigger breasts eased my cancer recovery by Wendy Staley Colbert
Brain, Child magazine essays by my former students:
Nearly Drowning by Vera Giles (selected by editors as one of the magazine’s best essays of 2015)
Movie Night by Natalie Singer-Velush
Coffee Cake and Kindness by Reni Roxas
Full Grown People essays published by my former students:
On my Watch by Joyce Tomlinson
BabyShusher by Natalie Singer-Velush
MFA and MA programs my students and clients have gone on to attend:
Goddard, Pacific University, Lesley University, Emerson College, Columbia University, University of Washington, American Institute of Indian Art (IAIA), and City University of London.